Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes3 min read

We all have a Dream in our childhood of what we would become when we grow up. Raise your hand if you are in the same job that you dreamt in your childhood. The survey says only 10% of the people are currently in their dreamed jobs. Remaining 90% have their own reasons like they didn’t have right skills, cited financial barriers, Family comes first.

We are, as human beings always great at blaming others for a situation, Family,Boss, Girlfriend. We never turn our fingers to ourselves. At the end of the day it is all in our hands to make the change. Everyone will have their own change management plan in their life, like, How it has to go. Then why we fail?. There are 3 enemies that chatters our plan.

1. Pleasing Others

My Mom came to me when I was in schooling. She asked me what was my dream. I immediately said I want to become an Astronaut. She replied me back that I cannot become one since I have a breathing issue, also she suggested me to become a software engineer since its safest and you can earn more. To please her I said ok then. Here I am now as a software Engineer.

2. Fear

Fact says 99% of the people in the world have anxiety. We ask ourself this ‘What If’ question. One ‘What If’ thought extends like a chain. To explain you, I just thought ‘What If I skip my Breakfast’. I will feel hungry by brunch and start scooping in my shelf for some snack. Which eventually turns into as habit.My weight which is now in 60 goes upto 80. Not bearing my weight my legs will start to pain and I will stop my walking. That was all my creativity. Just started with skipping Breakfast and ended up in death bed.

You can change your life if you change the stories that you tell yourself

3. Comfort Zone

People don’t want to take any risk in life. They want to be under the cloud that comforts them the most. Just imagine we all have a bag full of money at our doorsteps. Will we go for work the very next day?. If no-one goes to their respective jobs, Who will grow crops?, Who will maintain our Bank accounts?. The world will be stuck right there. So, you have to push yourself to accept the change in life.

These 3 factors ‘Pleasing Others’, ‘Fear’ and ‘Comfort Zone’. If we break it, that will help us to chase our Dream, Our Happiness.

So Friends, Stop worrying, have fun, be grateful, be yourself, don’t make an attempt to please others, come out of your comfort zone.

Life is a one time offer, live for the fullest. Think and act now.